India!
A quote from Sarah MacDonald that says it all:
"India is beyond statement, for anything you say, the opposite is also true. It's rich and poor, spiritual and material, cruel and kind, angry but peaceful, ugly and beautiful, and smart but stupid. It's all the extremes. India defies understanding, and for once, for me, that's okay."
Wow, India!
It overwhelmed my senses with vivid, lively colors of saris and flowers among crumbling, filthy, buildings and streets,
machine engines and horns constantly honking (as a courtesy),
the aromas of polluted air, garbage, sewage, incense, sweet curry and jasmine,
the excitement of transportation, especially auto rickshaw rides, gritty dirt billowing and sticking to sweaty skin,
the challenges of negotiating daily for almost everything,
hot, hot curries, condiments, and peppers that will make you sweat and cry,
beautiful, dark skinned people who have a genetic ability to head bobble,
emotions for the many, many people living in very extreme poverty,
wonderment at the resiliency of these people.
How do you walk away from so many beggars?
I recall big cities in the US, with transients, homelessness, and people asking for handouts. This is multiplied exponentially in India. It permeates the fabric of this nation. Rural or urban, nice part of town or not, poverty is everywhere. In India the beggars do not appear to be transient or homeless. Their home may be the shack down the street with tin sides, a sooty, black, palm frond roof, dirt floor and no belongings. The beggars in India do not sit and ask for money as you walk buy, instead they follow you, tug at you, talk to you, show you their hungry children. If you do give them some money, it is not enough, they ask for more and signal fingers to mouth.
Upon arrival in India we had a Diplomatic Briefing from the US Consulate. They gave us some very good and helpful information on how to survive a visit to India. They recommended that we do not give handouts or money to beggars, as it will draw more of them, create a mob and become dangerous. If you felt a great need to give something to a beggar, the suggestion was to give one person something as you are quickly departing. I am haunted by the faces of the people I did not give enough to and those that I tried to ignore.
It is so hard to know the right thing to do. The government has built small houses with stucco walls and solid roofs for many of the slum dwellers. NGO's have organized training programs for women and education for the children. We were able to visit a well established colony where the families moved from the slum to the housing 20 years ago. In organized small groups the women have received micro-credit loans to start various businesses. They feel proud, empowered, independent, and confident that they can do such things on their own, where before the move, they were totally dependent on their husbands. They have cared for their small homes adding on sections and tiling the floor. They have a bed, electricity, running water, toilets, a TV, and even a computer. This is a success story. However, convincing other slum dwellers to relocate seems to be a major obstacle. India is trying. India has a very long way to go.
Squat toilets. I successfully avoided them in India. But we are onto Malaysia and the other ports where I might not be so lucky:)
Stacey
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